Over time, it is astonishing how many people become a part of our lives. Some stay for a long while, others come and go. There is really no rhyme or reason behind it all either, maybe it’s all part of the grand master plan to help us become who we are meant to be. Usually it is the people who we least expect that end up becoming such a large influence to us and mean the most. So much to the point where you would do anything for them. In life, we call these people soul mates, and in Crossfit, we call these people swolemates.
Swolemates are individuals who have found their lifting counterpart in each other. You are lifting and suddenly you are like, “oh there you are, I’ve been looking for you to lift with.” It can be just about anyone – a best friend, significant other, family member, coworker, doesn’t matter. When it comes to Crossfit, these are the people who know your weaknesses and more importantly your strengths. They see you at your all time highs and they help you through the injuries and tears. Before you know it, even on the worst days you will go to class simply because they are going. Holding each other accountable, emotional support, motivation to reach our goals, competition to push to our limits . . . all are things developed between swolemates. Bet you that you can think of at least 2-3 swolemates right now that you have at Factory Square and may have no even realized it. They become your family at your home away from home.
Sure we all have swolemates. Why talk about it you ask? It is to recognize and appreciate that Crossfit is more than just lifting (and in my case talking about Lululemon and dancing around like no one is watching). The relationships we develop are more meaningful than we realize. Think about it . . . you don’t want just anyone there with you on PR days, you want your swolemates! They are the people who you look forward to seeing every day, the ones who push you to be a better person, who help you reach your goals. They become important to you, they are forever your Swolemates.